missinyouiskillingme:

When I told you we had to end it, that we had to go on our own separate paths, I wanted you to say no. I wanted you to tell me you would never let me go. I wanted you to say that you couldn’t imagine living life without me, that you would never love anyone as much as you loved me, even if it sounds a little selfish. I wanted you to fight for me, to stop me from leaving. But all you said was, “I’ve been thinking the same thing for a while now.”

what-iz-life:

Your soul knows. It will literally tell you when it’s time to start a new chapter of your life. Trust it.

aidashakur:

wicked-voiced-vixen-deactivated:

ys19:

Someday you will know that respect is more important than love.

You need both, it’s not an option, it’s not love if they don’t respect you.

aidashakur:

kush-clouds:

classycookiexo:

fuck this hit hard

missinyouiskillingme:

You can love someone and still choose to say goodbye to them. You can miss someone every day and still be glad they are no longer in your life.

ayem:

no such thing as wasting your 20s your 20s are for recovering from whatever the fuck happened to you as a kid so that youre ready to get weird with it in your 30s

(via l0vee-lust)

c-eznja:

“He said that We can Still be friends. But I think He meant that We can Be the kind of Strangers that share Silent memories and A passing smile Every once in a while.”

— (via missinyouiskillingme)

(via missinyouiskillingme)

gumuhit:

you’re going to love again, find a job again, create art again, do what you love again, feel powerful again. you’re going to be back on track. i don’t know when, but you are going to feel like yourself again, eventually. this isn’t the end. hang in there.

(via intensional)

brunetteg1rl:

loving loneliness and being alone, hating loneliness and being alone, believing that everyone is alone, believing that nobody is alone (all of these at the same time)

(via intensional)

irondadfan:

awfulpigeon:

perfectlycriminal:

pajamajamas:

dickensianwerewolf:

If you have a child and they are creeped out by a nephew or older brother touching them or looking at them a certain way, you need to have a serious talk with that person and keep them the hell away from your child. Don’t minimize it or tell your kid to hug them anyway, that kid is picking up danger signals they don’t even understand yet. But so many families will tell that kid they are being a brat.

thankyou

A quick note- this applies to female relatives as well. One of my aunts ignores my little brother’s requests not to hug or kiss him (he has aspergers and doesn’t like physical contact with people he is not very close with). I have repeatedly placed myself between the two of them and had to tell her to back off and stop trying to “desensitize” him. Whether or not there are “danger signals,” it is not okay for adults to invalidate a child or teen’s request for boundaries. We need to teach children now, when they are young, that they can say no to these things and that other people can too.

And this applies even if the relative isn’t giving bad vibes. Just in general teach your kids that they don’t have to have any physical contact for someone else’s sake if they don’t want to. 

Never not reblog

(via teenagerposts)